This dating test may help you figure out why your dates rarely lead to dating relationships. Learn 10 warning signs that you are a rude date and find out what to do instead — if you’d like to create a happy relationship.
10 Warning Signs That You Are A Rude Date — And What To Do Instead
1. Arrive late for a date or change plans last minute as a habit, instead of honoring your date’s feelings and your commitment to be together for a date.
2. Stare at attractive people who pass by or allow distractions of cell phones, text messages, silent vibes to interrupt your dating conversation, instead of devoting your full attention to your date.
3. Exaggerate your accomplishments and dating goals in hopes of getting laid, instead of being honest about your life resume or your desire for a casual fling so that your date can decide if your life experiences and dating goals are a good match.
4. Bog down the mood with heavy, negative stories from your past, instead of starting fresh and creating exciting new stories with your date.
5. Pressure a commitment quickly or invite a date to an event two months later, instead of allowing time to get to know each other and discovering if you can create a solid dating relationship based on common interests, shared values and romantic chemistry.
6. Use electronic communication to confirm dates or to keep track of your date’s online dating activities, instead of making a human connection your priority and dealing with dating issues in person.
7. Control conversations with a monologue about yourself, instead of finding common ground, asking about your date, and becoming a good listener as an act of love.
8. Pass judgment, put down your date’s dreams or suggest that your date change to fit your ideal, instead of accepting your date, quirks and all, as you determine if you are a compatible love match.
9. Criticize your date’s family or physical flaws that can’t be changed, instead of commenting on their strengths and special qualities.
10. Talk about how busy you are with work and family obligations, instead of making room in your life for love and making a new priority of your loving relationship — assuming you’d like a loving relationship to last.
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