Do you ever feel unappreciated in your relationship?
Does he send you roses when what you really want is time together?
Does she give you a hug when what you really want is a home-cooked meal?
The problem may not be your love but your Love Language. Find out if you and your date or mate speak the same Love Language when you answer some simple questions on this Love Test. Then learn how to improve your score by giving and receiving love in your best love language
What is a Love Language?
People express and experience love in different ways. In his best-selling book, The Five Love Languages (Northfield Publishing), Dr. Gary Chapman reveals five specific languages that we use to express heartfelt commitment in a relationship.
According to Dr. Chapman, the Five Languages of Love include: Quality Time, Words Of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch.
What is your Love Language?
You will know your Love Language when you consider what makes you feel loved in a relationship. Ask yourself some questions on this Love Test:
Do you need to receive verbal compliments, praise, encouraging or affectionate words to feel loved?
Do you need to receive gifts in order to feel loved?
Do you need the gift of someone’s presence in your daily life to feel loved?
Do you need the comfort of physical touch to feel loved?
Do you need a combination of these actions or qualities to feel loved? If so, what are your top two preferences?
To discover your best love language, consider this question: What do you complain about in your relationship?
Your complaints can reveal your preferred love language that is not being spoken by your date or mate. How can you turn a complaint into a chance for positive change?
You can tell your beloved about the Love Language that makes you feel loved and ask them to speak it more often.
What speaks volumes to you may be meaningless to your date or mate. This is why you need to explain what makes you feel loved and cherished so they can understand your unique love needs and be able to respond accordingly to make you feel loved.
What love language does your partner prefer?
Once you discover your preferred Love Language, then it’s wise to discover the Love Language your beloved requires to feel loved and cherished by you.
Can you guess how your beloved would respond if you asked them questions about their preferred Love Language?
Why not ask them the questions so you know for sure how to speak their best love language.
Once you each understand the Love Language that you and your date or mate speak, what will you do with this news?
Will you express your love in the language that your beloved speaks?
Will your beloved speak each other’s preferred love language to make sure you each feel loved and cherished in your relationship?
If you answered a whole-hearted, YES, then you will experience profound satisfaction and joy of being able to express your love and feel loved in return.
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Love deeply and live your dreams now,
Hadley Finch
Hadley
