Are you a pessimist or an optimist? Why is that important to your success in life and love? Answer this love test and find out.
Do you ever:
Feel stuck in an frustrating rut?
Let your inner critic’s voice stop you from thinking creatively or taking positive strides at work or in your relationships?
See an obstacle and find all the reasons you can’t overcome it?
Believe someone who says you can’t succeed at something that’s important to you?
Wonder if happy people are fake?
Give in to stress or dis-ease without doing anything to change things?
Let daily news reports make you fearful and weak, yet you stay glued to bad news?
Know that you should break a bad habit, but you don’t even try?
Assume that the future will be dark like your past?
A pessimist affirms most of these questions, reflecting negative attitudes that limit success and happiness.
Brain researchers report that most people are so negative that positive thinking can’t even help them. It also takes positive actions to rewire a pessimist’s brain before you can reap the benefits of optimism. Fortunately, our brains our resilient. A pessimist can learn how to become an optimist when you model optimistic attitudes and actions.
How?
You consciously choose to find the silver lining in every dark cloud and see every challenge as a chance for growth and change.
You notice negative self talk and move forward anyway.
You choose positive self talk over negative, which increases your chances for success in any situation.
You believe in a positive outcome and take positive actions to realize it.
You bend without breaking and once bent, you spring back stronger than ever.
You find ways to overcome obstacles so you can achieve important goals.
You make healthy choices in lifestyle and relationships.
You take life’s lemons and give thanks you can make lemonade.
What’s another important attribute of an optimist?
Shot down 8 times, you bounce back 9. This Proverb refers to the resilience that springs from optimistic attitudes and actions.
Medical studies suggest that being a resilient optimist promotes healthy vitality, success and happy relationships. Now that you know the attitudes and action plans of optimists, I encourage you to choose optimism every day as a sure-fire way to enjoy greater health, success and love.
I formed the Tribe Of Blondes around the resilient, optimistic spirit that unites us and creates great relationships. And I’d like to give you all the relationship success tools you need to bulletproof a relationship or recruit your perfect match if you’re single, and build better relationships with everyone in your life when you begin your exiting program at http://GreaterSuccessAndLove.com
Love deeply and live your dreams now,
Hadley Finch
